Balance + Lift

Self-Massage: How and Why You Should Do It Daily?

Note: Affiliate links may be used in this post. I may receive a small commission at no extra cost to you if you make a purchase through my affiliate link. Read my full disclosure policy here.



Self-care is one of those things that's seriously necessary, but completely underutilized. And, knowing how to do self-massage goes a long way to giving you at least one thing you can do in the realm of self-care.

What usually gets a lot of folks though is the thought that they have to do it every day and that if they miss a day they've just ruined things.

Or, they'll think, “I can't do it in the morning (or evening), so I just can't do it.”

Let's blow that shit right out of the water though… You don't have to do self-massage every day, or at a certain time of day, and you won't screw up a routine if you can't do it every day.

Self-Massage: How and Why You Should Do It Daily?

Even if you only add self-massage into your daily routine 1-2 times a week that's still better than not doing it at all. So, do yourself a favor and start incorporating some form of daily massage into your daily routine.

By now you might be thinking, “ok girl, but what the hell is the benefit to me?”

And, that would be a really good question.

Benefits of Self-Massage

Aside from the obvious benefit of moisturizing your skin, self-massage is a great way to do many other things.

  • It tones and adds vigor to the body tissues
  • It decreases the effects of aging
  • Increases blood flow to the skin
  • Helps to firm skin
  • Stimulates internal organs
  • Helps you to sleep better
  • Helps to diminish the appearance of cellulite

Any of those pique your interest? I know at least a few of those benefits piqued mine.

It's super relaxing and a great way to either start your day or end your day.

If you add a little dry brushing to your morning routine and follow it with a self-massage it can be invigorating.

But, if you just want to wind down and relax then doing a self-massage before bed is a great way to relax.

Try lighting a few candles and putting on some of your favorite music. This will help you with relaxing while you're massaging your body.

image of a woman sitting by a tub

How to Do Self-Massage

We've gone over the benefits of giving yourself a self-massage, now let's go over how to actually give yourself a self-massage.

It's not overly complicated or even an exact science. You don't even have to follow the directions I have laid out below, but knowing is half the battle right?

Don't get to worked up if you can't do all of the steps or even do the whole massage. This is the case of “some is better than none,” so don't beat yourself up.

This is a great way to start giving yourself a little one-on-one time.

Some alone time.

Some breathing room.

Use this time to really focus on yourself. Create a little sacred time that is dedicated to you and just pamper yourself. It's easy to be constantly on the go and doing for others, so this is your little slice of that pie.

Meaning put everything else out of your mind (yes, even that to-do list) and focus on giving yourself some nourishment.

1 Warm your oil

For the oil, I use Banyan Botanical's Daily Massage oil.

I put it in one of these amber squeeze bottles. It does come with six bottles, but you can always create a lovely oil and either give away as presents or make different scents for yourself.

Once your oil is in your bottle you'll want to get a cup with some really hot water to set it in. This will help make the oil warm for your massage. It's so much better than trying to warm it in your hands first.

The warmth from the oil will help to relax your muscles and encourage blood flow to your skin.

2 Sit in a warm room in a towel

image in a bath robe drinking tea

You can either sit in a towel for the massage or sit on the towel. Personally, I sit on the towel that way it doesn't get too oily.

I would place a towel down for your feet too. A hand towel will work for that. This will keep you from slipping if you have to stand up ;).

3 Apply oil generously to your entire body

Don't skimp on the oil… really. This is where the nourishment comes from. Not to mention, the more oil you use the easier it is to massage your body.

Don't worry about being too oily. What your body doesn't absorb will be washed off in the shower or absorbed later.

4 Start on your arms and legs

Starting with your arms and legs, massage oil in long slow strokes and rub circularly over your joints. Work the oil towards the center of your body. Once you get to your stomach slowly work in a circular and clockwise pattern over your intestines (be careful not to rub in circles to hard or long – you can cause yourself to have diarrhea).

5 Make sure to massage your scalp and feet

image of woman massaging her feet

Massaging your scalp and your feet are quite possibly the best parts of a self-massage in my opinion.

To massage your scalp, you get the oil on your hands but only use your fingertips on your scalp when you're massaging. This minimizes the amount of oil that gets in your hair but allows for a lovely message that your scalp will really enjoy.

For your feet, make sure you don't miss any portions of your feet when you're massaging them. Here's a great diagram of pressure points and their corresponding body part that you can reference.

6 Oil your ear canal

Stick your pinky finger into the warm oil and gently rub the oil into your ears and then massage the lobes gently. There are quite a few pressure points on your ears and massaging the outer portions of your ear can help to relieve a lot of tension in the body.

Oiling the canal keeps it lubricated and cleansed of debris. It also helps to prevent earaches.

7 Be sure to wash your feet first

Since you'll be taking a shower to wash off the oil you want to make sure you wash off your feet first so you don't slip in the shower.

Believe me, almost slipping and busting your bottom on the edge of the tub/shower is not glamorous or fun, not that I would know or anything.

8 Enjoy a warm bath or shower

image of a woman in a bath

This is one of those moments I relish. I love standing in a hot shower and just relaxing.

So, this is the perfect opportunity to really do that. You get to stand there in the hot shower. Be sure to run your hands over your body to help the warm water rinse off the excess oil.

9 Mild Soap or Dusting Powder

If you have to go to work or start your day, then it might be better for you to use a mild soap or dusting powder to get off the residue.  Check out Banyan Botanicals Calamus powder here.

If you're not sure what kind of mild soap to use then you might like this soap by Dr. Bonner. I love that lavender and that it's really gentle on the skin.

10 Dry with a towel designated for self-massage

It's really great to have a towel that's dedicated to drying off after self-massage because it will contain oil from the residue.

Since the towel has residual oil it is advised not to put it in the dryer once you wash it. Safety hazard and all.

A good rule of thumb is to throw it out after a couple of months and then designate a new towel for self-massage, but that's totally up to you. If you find that washing the towel with a good detergent gets out the oil then you should be ok.

11 Put on cotton socks

If I had to not wash the oil off one part of my body it would be my feet. Yes, suds and soap from lathering the rest of your body might get onto your feet, but if you don't actively scrub them then you might be ok.

Leaving the oil on your feet will help keep them soft and free from rough spots. Not to mention it's really soothing and relaxing.

Getting a nice pair of cotton socks to slip on makes it easy when you step out of the shower. Using socks help to keep you from slipping as you walk down the hall.

If you'd like a little idea of what self-massage looks like then check out this video showing you how it's done. Also, self-massage is also called Abhyanga in Ayurveda.

Don't worry, I'll write about Ayurveda in the coming months so you'll learn about that too.

Did you know that Self-Massage (or Abhyanga) is a part of Ayurveda which is a sister branch to yoga?

Ayurveda is a 5,000-year-old science that believes in treating the whole person rather than treating the symptoms.

To learn more about how you can use Ayurveda in your life I recommend going to Banyan Botanicals Dosha Quiz to learn more about yourself and your particular constitution (or dosha).

There is a lot to this science so please don't feel the need to know everything right off the bat.

Here is a great book by Sahara Rose called Eat Feel Fresh. It's brand new and full of all sorts of recipes and help. She also has a book called the Idiots Guide to Ayurveda that is particularly popular. It's a must read if you're trying to learn more about Ayurveda.

Check out more posts related to yoga below:


 Don't forget to pin this post for later! 

woman massaging her foot